… wife lamennts unpaid bride price

CITIZENS COMPASS —A Customary Court sitting in Oke Eda, Akure, Ondo State capital, has adjourned a judgment to decide whether the failure of a father of four to pay his wife dowry can lead to losing his children to his estranged wife till October 10

Obayan had approached the court to challenge his wife, Prophetess Chibuzor Lilian Obayan, claiming that his inability to pay her dowry will make him forfeit the paternity of his children.

The father of four who was asking for the dissolution of his 23-year-old marriage alleging that his wife eloped with one of the workers of their church located  at Arowojobe Street, Ladipo, Lagos.

Obayan, the Prophet and founder of Divine Prophetic Solutions Prayers Ministry located off Arowojobe Street, Ladipo, Lagos, asked the Court to dissolve his marriage and grant him custody of his four children.

According to him, his wife had changed the surname of his four children to the name of her new husband, Prince Abua Obi, describing the development as strange.

The petitioner told the court that he is a Yoruba man while his wife is Ibo from Abia state. He explained that, “My wife and I have a ministry in Lagos with large congregation. But at present, she is married to Prince Abua Obi, a junior worker in our church where both of us led as shepherds.

My lord, Prince Abua Obi, is legally married with children. He and his wife are both workers in our ministry. The couple used to revere us, such that they call my wife and I, daddy and mummy.

“But to my surprise, my wife started an illicit affair with the man and she is married to him now. She has re-registered the Church in 2019 and even changed my children’s surname to  Obi.

“My wife went ahead to change the name of our church we co-founded from Divine Prophetic Solutions Prayers Ministry, to Peace of Jerusalem Revival Ministry in the same location.

“I have run to God and the court to seek justice on this matter. Let her leave me, but she should not take my children away from me.”

The respondent’s lawyer, T.B. Odudu, told the court that she had called six witnesses who testified in the case and they all corroborated their testimonies that there was no marriage between the petitioner and the respondent.

“In Ibo land, it is their custom that if bride price has not been paid in any relationship, they don’t see the man as husband and father of his children,” she stated.

According to her, the treaty, concept of parental agreement, handing over of the bride and payment of bride price were not in the relationship, and stressed that the plaintiff lacked the five elements of customary marriage in Ibo land.

However, the petitioner’s counsel, Bosun Otitoju, told the court that his witnesses had testified in court that there was a marriage ceremony between Obayan and his wife.

Otitoju cited the case of Agbeja (1985) 3 NWLR (Pt.11) 19, which held,  “in proof of customary marriage, the evidence of the Head of the family is desirable to prove an eyewitness account of the transaction is essential.”

He, therefore, urged the court to grant his client’s claims.

President of the Court, Magistrate Segun Stephen Rotiba, in his ruling, adjourned the matter till October 10, for judgment.